
The slow movement is about slowing down and having richer relationships
with people. Not just our partner, but our entire family, our friends,
our workmates, our neighbours, and anybody else wemeet. How many of us don’t know the
names of our neighbours?
We are all one
A
rich relationship is one where there is a deep connection based on
loving-kindness. Some people think it takes time to develop a rich
relationship and a deep connection. Yet a deep connection with another
person can be made in minutes. It is all about where we focus. Do we
focus on ourselves, or do we focus on the other person? When we focus
on the other person, and that is, when we truly focus on the other
person, we make a deep connection.
When we make a deep connection we make rich relationships and …
Rich relationships make rich lives
When
we connect to people in our community or neighbourhood we also connect
to place and to the slow movement. In the fast-lane lives people don’t
have time to slow down and talk and listen to others. Either they drive
to work in stressful traffic, or they catch a bus or train and spend
the duration of the journey reading a newspaper or trying to avoid eye
contact with their fellow passengers.

Stopping for a chat
Why
do people do this? What are they afraid of? What are they doing that is
more valuable and rewarding than talking and connecting to people?
This
fear or denial of other people’s existence is seen in the current
attitude to older people in western countries. It seems that so many
times, once a person reaches their latter years they are ignored at
best, and at worst subjected to discrimination and abuse.
Other
cultures have maintained the respect and sense of responsibility for
their aged that we have in our cultural past. Why is this? Is it a
result of our crazy desire for 
Just Talking individuation?
Or is it because we have believed the propaganda the media has fed us
about youth, looks, health etc, that has led to some of us placing
value on these things and conversely placing no or less than no value
on aging, wrinkles/saggy skin, declining health etc.?
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Posted by: Jérémy Dumont
Posted on: levidepoches.fr/contagiousideas
Source: slow movement.com